It’s all doom and gloom with the mainstream media. There are people talking about how you need to give up pornography RIGHT THE FUCK NOW OR ELSE IT’S GONNA FRY YOUR BRAIN, there are articles about porn ruining lives, relationships, shortening attention spans, and so forth.
While X-rated movies are not going to cure AIDS any time soon, they are certainly not as bad as some people like to pretend they are. Let’s talk about the major benefits of pornography. Let’s talk about why it’s perfectly fine to indulge in it once in a while.
It’s Healthy
For every study that finds that porn is going to ruin your brain and ability to get aroused, there’s a study saying the exact opposite. A good way to find out if it’s going to ruin you personally is to just look back at your life and think about all the porn that you’ve consumed and about all the damage it’s done. There’s probably zero, right?
Sure, some people say that watching porn every day can lead to a serious addiction, but doing anything every day obsessively can lead to addiction, be it drinking a certain amount of water or working out a certain number of minutes. In other words, addictions are everywhere and some are healthier than the others. With porn, it’s STILL hard to tell, so you need to listen to what your body is telling you.
It Can Make Your Sex Life Better
The anti-porn people will tell you that once you break the habit, your sex life will become something that is beyond words, beyond description, and beyond simple pleasure. Truth be told, we oftentimes turn to porn because we suck at being creative in the sack. There are many good ideas and good fantasies showcased in those pornographic flicks. All you have to do is remember that porn is NOT supposed to be realistic in the slightest, so you can’t expect your partner to bend into a fucking pretzel. Also, squirting is not as prevalent as you might think.
Anyway, what we are saying that incorporating some of the stuff that you see in porn into your relationship can be extremely beneficial. Let’s say that you saw some high-res, story-driven clip on 4kpornvideos.tv right? You noticed that the woman in question responded well to dirty talking or sexy whispers or a certain kind of foreplay or something along those lines… Why not try some of that stuff in real life?
It’s a GREAT Stress Reliever
Our life can be too much to handle at times. Or every day, depending on your current situation. You can’t always turn stress into something productive, i.e. enjoy a rewarding workout or indulge in your hobbies or something similar. Sometimes you just need to chug a beer or jerk off to a hardcore porn vid (it’s the healthier option, mind you).
It’s Great for Riffing
If you and your partner are a bunch of MST3K-like assholes that like making fun of stuff, there’s NOTHING better than porn with its ridiculous plots, awkward dialogue, stilted delivery, and other things that are easy to make fun of. You can opt for story-driven porno movies that look like cheesy soap operas, you can look at all the hilariously low-budget Eastern European porn flicks, you can seek out “weird” porn. There are MANY different options for that kind of thing.
It Can Strengthen Your Relationship
Watching pornography together can open both of your minds to fresh and exciting sexual prospects. Also, what’s the point in dating someone if you’re not even comfortable enough to watch a porn flick with ‘em? This kind of communication and trust will strengthen your bond and increase the confidence you have during your sexcapades. More confidence=taking risks=more pleasurable fucking. It’s a win-win situation, is it not?
It Decreases Your Aggression Levels
Yup, porn is known to reduce aggressive tendencies. You don’t hear this kind of information very often, do you? Getting off to your favorite type of porn can be an extremely cathartic experience, so obviously you’re going to feel calmer and more relaxed. Post-orgasm clarity is also great when it comes to making important decisions, as many of you probably know already.
nopnop says
just pathetic these people wanking all day long and come to say that porn is bad and lower you IQ.
if their lives are fucked up it’s not porn fault, it’s theirs
these pervs without a life shaming on sex workers are like obese blaming on food for they being fat.
“eating is bad for your heath”
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